Sex addiction is an issue with a plethora of complexity. It can undoubtedly lead to negative effects on an individual and their relationships. It is natural to ask whether someone with a sexual addiction is more likely to cheat on their partner. Simply put, the answer may be yes; the reasons are deeply nuanced and rooted in the nature of sexual addiction itself.
Are sex addicts more likely to cheat?
Sex addicts typically engage in compulsive behavior that goes beyond what is normal. Some may engage in sexual relations with multiple partners, have serial affairs, or participate in risky sexual acts. Because their sexual addiction drives them to seek out sexual experiences, they may be more likely to cheat on their partners. Unfortunately, this pattern of behavior, being formed via their need to fulfill their compulsion, typically outweighs any commitments they have to their partner. In this state, it is possible that the desire to engage in sexual acts can be so overwhelming that it leads to infidelity.
Though this is what happens, it may be important to note that cheating may not necessarily be the goal of the sex addict. Cheating and infidelity are not the goals but the means on the way to satisfy the need to engage in sexual acts.
In addition, sex addicts can engage in internet sex, phone sex, or other forms of sexual activity that involve zero physical engagement with another, yet it can still be a form of cheating.
What percentage of sex addicts cheat?
It is challenging to provide an exact percentage of sex addicts who cheat. Why? Sexual addiction manifests itself in different ways. Studies suggest that a significant portion of individuals who have this struggle engage in infidelity. It is believed that upwards of 70% of individuals who struggle with sexual addiction have cheated on their partners at some point. The compulsive nature of this kind of behavior makes the percentage no surprise.
Sexual addiction can involve various forms of sexual acts, including:
- Serial affairs
- One-night stands
- Non-physical activities (internet or phone sex)
It is difficult to pinpoint an exact number because the way it can be acted upon varies. The trend, however, is clear: people with sexual addiction are more likely to cheat than those without it.
What are the statistics of sex addiction?
Sexual addiction is much more common than many would expect.
It is estimated that about 3-6% of the adult population in the United States struggles with some form of sexual addiction. Though men might be more commonly affected, this includes both men and women. The onset of the behavior usually begins in adolescence or early adulthood and can escalate over time.
Many with sexual addiction struggles may also deal with substance abuse. The concurrent issue can make the addiction difficult to manage. It often requires a combination of therapy and, in some cases, medication to alleviate the issue.
What is the relapse rate for sex addicts?
For anyone struggling with a sex addiction, relapse is a significant concern. Some studies suggest the relapse rate could be upwards of 50% within the first year of recovery. This is likely due to the pervasive nature of sexual triggers in everyday life. This makes it extremely difficult to avoid situations that may lead to relapse.
Sex addicts typically require ongoing support to maintain their recovery. The support they may choose includes both individual and group therapy. Both can be powerful means of combatting the issue. Group therapy, however, can be particularly effective because it provides a space for individuals to share and learn from others who are fighting toward recovery.
Can sex addicts be monogamous?
A sex addict can maintain a monogamous relationship. But, this requires a significant amount of work and dedication, both for the addicted and their supporters. The first step is, of course, recognizing the addiction and seeking help. It is highly unlikely that without treatment, the compulsive behavior will subside. It must be addressed through multiple angles.
Sex Addiction Treatment at Fifth Avenue Psychiatry
At Fifth Ave Psychiatry, we are an expert team of psychologists and psychiatrists who want to see people healed and restored. We understand that this looks different for everyone.
If you or anyone you know struggles with any form of addiction or compulsive behavior, please do not hesitate to contact us. Our outpatient services make our services ideal if you need additional support to help regain control over your life. We do not want to judge you; we want to help.
To inquire about the services we offer, call (212) 734-0506.
